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Nasi Goreng And Bill Clinton
Said & Done
The Dog Gets It
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Ode to Timeless Beauty
It’s in the Jeans
Grab Bag
Face-Shionable
Indulge Yourself
Beautifully Done
Two Of A Kind
Leading the Way
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Wonder of Wanders
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Reporter's Notebook
Obama’s Jakarta Trail
Center Piece
A Thing of Beauty
When Susuk Meets Scalpel
Where the Stars Go …
Life
Custom Made
Art
Aesthetically enhanced
Sport
A Sporting Chance
Dinner Is Served
Full of Body
Vanneque on Wine
Gambling On Wine With Asian Cuisine
On A Jet Plane
An Island of Your Own
This Way Out
Well Read, Well Fed
To Do List
To Do List
20/20
‘Having Money is Nothing Special’


Beautifully Done

Being attractive isn’t comparable to buying the latest in product. It’s about your mind.

I never felt that it was important to look deep within myself to be handsome. I keep my spiritual side separate; Sunday is the day when I display my holy pretenses, and from Monday to Saturday (and even Sunday morning, before I step into church), I am a man of this worldly world.

I did not consider that my spiritual life influences my choice of attire and ultimately makes me attractive. But I now know that being beautiful is a form of devotion.

Face it, everybody wants to be beautiful and the object of desire. I did my utmost to measure up in the handsome stakes, believing that being more attractive would not only make me happy but also keep contented those around me. That is what I mean by devotional duty.

To start with, we have to respect our bodies.  The Almighty created us, and we were not the ones who chose to be born into this world (“It looks good down there on Earth, I’ll give it a go”). I don’t understand those who willfully destroy all that God created and bestowed upon them, such as eating with abandon or smoking, instead of taking responsibility for their actions.

With this mind-set, I began working out and eating right, not just stuffing food into my mouth to satisfy my taste-buds. If I am healthy, eating well and my mind stable, then I will have that inner beauty that people are always talking about. If I set aside time to take care of my home by keeping it neat and tidy, then shouldn’t I at least do the same for all that God gave me?

Showing respect to the one above by looking good is not about resorting to cosmetic surgery for a whole new you. If you do the Jennifer Gray stunning makeover, and no longer resemble your former self, not only will you be confused by the person staring back at you in the mirror, but so will your best friends.

A friend likes to joke that if a surgically enhanced you enters heaven with a face that no longer resembles the original creation listed in the guestbook upstairs, then you may be given a detour to the fiery refuge below.

While resorting to cosmetic surgery may be understandable for those injured in an accident, it’s no holy mission when your intent is to get a straighter or higher nose. For aren’t you then messing with what God chose to give you?  Hopefully, when your time is up, you will be able to explain your nip/tuck.

Forget the shortcuts, and start thinking sensibly. You might be a college graduate with a successful career, but if you cannot take care of your body, then your fall into the clever-but-stupid person category. Don’t.

+ Samuel Mulia


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