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The Marrying of Chani Kaufman [Kindle Edition]

Eve Harris
4.2 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (145 customer reviews)

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'Some of the women (the story is mostly told from a female perspective), could have been created by Jane Austen or Mrs Gaskell. Snobby, comic Mrs Levy, Chani s future mother-in-law, is furious that her 20-year-old son Baruch (Hebrew for Blessed), is marrying beneath him. His bride, 19-year-old Chani, is one of eight daughters of a financially strained rabbi and his exhausted pudding of a wife. Worse, Chani is a girl with a mind of her own.' --Sue Fox, Sunday Express

Well-written, unapologetic, unvarnished and undisguised. --Gerald Jacobs, Jewish Chronicle

Harris evokes the community s insular nature, she also suggests the sense of comfort and belonging that it confers, offering a sympathetic window on a way of life little glimpsed in contemporary fiction. --David Evans, Financial Times

In a narrative that weaves the viewpoints of the bride and groom, it is the third story which provides the emotional and thematic complexity needed to raise the story to a Booker contender. It is the story of Rivka, a rebbetzin, whose ambitious husband, Chaim, marries the couple. --Danuta Kean, The Independent

Judaism may be the setting but Eve touches on universal themes. It's about being true to ourselves when even our closest friends seem at odds with our chosen lifestyle. It's about forging a set of values when everything around us, locally and globally, seems to encourage the antithesis. It's about being human. It's about being alive and I adored it. --Ani Johnson, The Bookbag

'Humour abounds, but so do pathos and anger. Harris s eye for suburban social mores is wickedly acute, as is her evident relish in describing both the sensual life and its absence.' --Catherine Taylor, The Guardian

'This novel is beautifully done and highly recommended.' --Victoria Moore, Daily Mail

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19 year-old Chani lives in the ultra-orthodox Jewish community of North West London. She has never had physical contact with a man, but is bound to marry a stranger. The rabbi’s wife teaches her what it means to be a Jewish wife, but Rivka has her own questions to answer. Soon buried secrets, fear and sexual desire bubble to the surface in a story of liberation and choice; not to mention what happens on the wedding night…

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  • Format: Kindle Edition
  • File Size: 470 KB
  • Print Length: 350 pages
  • Publisher: Sandstone Press (24 July 2013)
  • Sold by: Amazon Media EU S.à r.l.
  • Language: English
  • ASIN: B00E3S6BGC
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  • Average Customer Review: 4.2 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (145 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Bestsellers Rank: #1,197 Paid in Kindle Store (See Top 100 Paid in Kindle Store)
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34 of 37 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars The Story of Isaac 15 Aug 2013
By MisterHobgoblin TOP 500 REVIEWER VINE VOICE
Format:Kindle Edition|Amazon Verified Purchase
It seems some members of London's Orthodox Jewish community didn't like The Marrying of Chani Kaufman. I'm guessing they weren't meant to.

This is a (mostly) very funny novel that is, literally, about the marriage of Chani Kaufman to her approved fiancé Baruch Levy. Chani is excited about the wedding but in fear of the wedding night. She has led a sheltered life, the daughter of a Rabbi in a strict Orthodox community. No television; no boys; no trendy clothes; no university.

The novel then pans back and we see how Chani came to be getting married; we see into the lives of her family and the Levys; we see into the life of Baruch's best friend Avromi and his family - and his father just happens to be the rabbi who is going to officiate at Chani and Baruch's wedding.

What we find does not make for happy reading. There are layers of ritual - depicted by Eve Harris as pointless and even damaging. There is denial of reality. There is hypocrisy. And overwhelmingly, there is sweet food. Life is a constant and arduous preparation for the Sabbath, the day the Jewish community will be busily resting. Everything is a constant rush to be ready for the start of Sabbath, the moment at which all tools must be downed, all activities ceased, and everyone will have fun. Yes, through gritted teeth, they *will* have fun.

Eve Harris portrays a community leading dull lives, plenty of privations, and generally levels of tat and decay. Plus very sweet food. Nothing seems to be new and shiny apart from the honey glaze on assorted cakes. Even the wealthy Levys seem to have a Spartan quality to their palatal, leather-suited living spaces. There is an eternal feel to their world. This, of course, turns out to be a bit of a sham.
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5 of 5 people found the following review helpful
By K. J. Noyes TOP 500 REVIEWER
Format:Paperback
4.5 stars.

A read I couldn't resist, as a secular Jew who knows nothing of my cultural heritage.

I wasn't at all disappointed. I can see some very critical reviews of this but I loved it. It's a real education into a hidden world for those not of the community.

19-year-old Jewish girl Chani is about to marry Baruch, another observant Jew from London. We see their courtship, their family lives, their customs. And through the Rabbi's wife, Rivka, who is teaching Chani the wifely duties, we see another generation's perspective and young life and how marriage to a Rabbi changes her life.

I found it a real eye-opener. I really appreciated just how dedicated the Jewish people are, constantly, in everything they do, to their beliefs. I loved the insight into the customs (ritual baths, wigs, not touching until marriage).

The wedding bookends worked well, with Chani's wedding returned to again with more knowledge of the trials of her courtship and fleshing out of her character and that of her groom. It helped to complete the picture having Baruch's voice as part of the novel, a young man struggling to follow traditions but also to fit them into his more modern world.

Very good book, with a highly useful glossary of Hebrew-English terminology at the back that I referred to constantly.
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9 of 10 people found the following review helpful
Format:Paperback
This novel seems like an attempt to write a Jewish Orthodox version of "A Suitable Boy". And I confess that I found it quite exciting and enjoyable to learn so much about the way of life of the Orthodox Jewish community in London. I am glad I read this book!
On the other hand, I was often dissatisfied with the way it was written. None of the characters really come to life, they all remained rather flat, sometimes almost like caricatures. The inner dialogues seem contrived and much of the plot is limited to stereotypes. For these reassons, the big spiritual and emotional dilemmas, described in this book, did not move me. In its literary quality it never gets anywhere near the "Suitable Boy".
On the whole, I am glad I gave the novel a try. But with this exciting material I regret that the author failed to write a much better novel! I am surprised this book has made it to the Booker Long List.
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14 of 16 people found the following review helpful
4.0 out of 5 stars the fascination of the unfamiliar 8 Aug 2013
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Aren't we all fascinated by the unfamiliar? We are curious about people who live in a world that seems strange and closed in, keeping centuries-old customs and laws. Most of all we are perturbed by they way they cut themselves off from modern life.

The appeal of Eve Harris' debut novel - longlisted for the Man Booker prize - is that it speaks to those who know something of the Charedi world, and those who know nothing. The Marrying of Chani Kaufman tells the story of a young woman in her late teens who is preparing to enter an arranged marriage. After only four dates the fate of Chani and her prospective bridegroom Baruch is sealed. They know little about each other, still less about sex. But they do know what is expected of them by their families, their Rabbi, their community, and most of all by God (HaShem).

The author tells the story with humour and compassion, making it hard for the reader to put the book down. We know what is going to happen to Chani and Baruch, but we are eager for details - and this is what we get: an insight into the fraught wedding preparations, the interactions of two sets of incompatible parents and the turbulent life of an onlooker, the Rebbetzin (the wife of the Rabbi who is to perform the ceremony.)

Eve Harris leads us into a world of families with many children ("even the love Chani received was of the hand-me-down kind"). She explains the expectations of marriage ("A good Yiddisher girl to stir the cholent and light their Shabbos candles. An instant wife - just add water.") She has got under the skin of these Jews, understanding not only their customs but their social motivation.
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1.0 out of 5 stars An attack on Orthodox Judaism
All the characters portrayed as being orthodox jews were unsympathetic at best, or down right mean, avaricious and hypocritical at worst. Read more
Published 5 days ago by ds
3.0 out of 5 stars interesting
Very interesting book I would have found it a lot more enjoyable if the
Yiddish - English glossary had been at the front of the book to study first
Published 9 days ago by poppet
5.0 out of 5 stars Insightful and unusual
I really enjoyed reading this. It's one that our bookclub decided upon. This time I've finished the book within a few days of buying it, unlike my usual rush to finish the book... Read more
Published 29 days ago by B. A. Sanders
4.0 out of 5 stars Poignant
A good compelling read. Interesting to know how other cultures live. Would love to see a sequel to find out if they ultimately have a happy marriage.
Published 1 month ago by Jimmy
5.0 out of 5 stars Riveting reading
I loved this book from beginning to end. A moving and sometimes very amusing story the content of which is very familiar to me but still enthralling.
Published 1 month ago by Gilly
5.0 out of 5 stars loved this book
Great insight into a traditional Orthodox Jewish wedding in North London and all that's involved in it on a practical and emotional level. great book
Published 1 month ago by Madblack
4.0 out of 5 stars Frum in Golders Green/Hendon LONDON
A tender, and at times frank peak behind the Scheitel (wig) culture of the Ultra-Orthodox community in the Golders Green/Hendon area of London. Read more
Published 1 month ago by TripFiction
3.0 out of 5 stars interesting
Although I am Jewish, I am not as orthodox as the people in the book, I found it quite interesting.
Published 1 month ago by Jacqueline
4.0 out of 5 stars Draws reader into different culture
I found this book frustrating at times as it seemed almost repetitive and the plot progress was slow but I think this was on purpose. I.e. Read more
Published 1 month ago by sab
4.0 out of 5 stars Not edge of the seat stuff but.......
.....very readable.
I loved the insight into a world about which I know nothing. The Kauffman family live in a very Orthodox Jewish London community, as closed, in its own... Read more
Published 1 month ago by Poppy Doll
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